The Simplest Lesson on Attraction Ever

I find that the community can be over focused on attraction so much that they put so much emphasis on it that they never get into comfort. Too much attraction sends you past the point of getting someone interested in finding out more about you so far that she starts to think that you are either out of her league or just a self-absorbed douchebag. This is why you look for IOI's and when you get them you transition out of attraction.

There are so many ways to run attraction. Stories, banter, push-pull, kino, roleplaying, et cetera but they all have one thing in common and here comes the simplest lesson on attraction ever.

Attraction is giving a woman or a group of people an interaction or conversation that they could not have if you were not there.

That's it. If you can do that, people will give you more time to stay and interact with them and in turn a chance to shift out of attraction and into a real conversation. If you don't, they will tire quickly and the set will fizzle.